Showing posts from November 26, 2012

A Much Needed Break

It has been an interesting few months.

I'm still very happy, but there are days where my patience and my good will are just about gone.

It is to the point where stuff at home is stressing me out that it is impacting me at work. That is on me though. I need to keep the home stress at home, and I need to me more aware of my own behavior. I am usually pretty self aware, but I have gotten away from this. My focus has not been there, and only I can make the changes to fix it.

Any time you are in a relationship, things aren't perfect. If you add kids to that gets harder. If said kids aren't yours, it just makes it a bigger challenge.

I'm not the mom, nor should I try to be the mom. Still there should be a certain level of respect and courtesy that should fall into place once all parties have had time to adjust. We do work hard to make sure they have  the things we can afford to make them happy. We have tried different approaches to try to set up and maintain bounda…